Khirada
Kumari Baruah
The impressing personality of some people has great
impact on human mind. The unforgettable moments of close association with
person becomes so memorable that flourishes in our minds for many years.
The owner of such rare personality, Srimati Khirada Kumari Baruah was born
in 1932 at the house of her maternal uncle on the bank of the river Kolong.
Khirada Kumari was the eldest daughter of Late Ashadhar Borkakoti and late
Maisana Borkakoti of North Guwahati.
Having started her primary education at North Guwahati,
showed her talent from very childhood and topped the list of successful
candidates in the competitive Examination of Primary level.
In the mean time unfortunately her father died when she
was a minor girl of eight years only. Thus she had to face the hard days
of life along with her widowed mother. As there was no high school at
North Guwahati, Khirada Kumari took admission in Panbazar Girls High
School on the south bank of the river Brahmaputra and the girl had to
reach her school, crossing the mighty river Brahmaputra everyday. The then
Head mistress of Panbajar Girls high school Rajobala Das had great faith
on Khirada Kumari and loved the talented, enthusiastic little girl from
the core of her heart. Inspire of all good wishes she could not continue
her study further and had to stop her institutional learning at the early
age of fourteen.
Khirada Kumari�s married life:
It is said �birth, death and marriage are arranged in
heaven and celebrate on earth�- truly it was a dramatic situation when
Khirada Kumari had to tie herself with the so called marriage ceremony�
being young so young and so suddenly.
Late Laxmiram Baruah the eminent musician�s son late
Prafulla Chandra Baruah and Late Parashuram Baruah (Phunu Baruah) are the
two bright stars of the cultural history of Assam. They had lost their
mother Jahnobi and father Laxmiram Baruah in their childhood which
compelled them to struggle a lot. But both the brothers had built up their
career and laid the foundation stone of their cultural life at Sibsagar.
When late Prafulla Chandra Baruah, the father of two
children lost his wife, it really became necessary for his brother late
Parasuram Baruah (Phunu Baruah) to marry a girl to look after their
family. His marriage was arranged with a girl from North Guwahati.
�The marriage ceremony of �Langi Godapani�! The
legendary hero ecstasy Khirada Kumari was also ready to attend and enjoy
the marriage ceremony with her friends. But it so happened that the
marriage ceremony with that girl was cancelled due to some unavoidable
reason and that very day Khirada Kumari was selected by their family to be
the worthy bride for Phunu Baruah. That unforgettable moment was narrated
by Khirada Kumari in the article �Swamir Suwori� in the both �Abhinoy Sesh
Hol� (End of the drama) which is published by the Assam Sahitya Sabha, the
highest literary platform of the state. "I was a teenager and far from
maturity, quite ignorant about the bond called �Marriage� which was a
mystery for me at that time and in 1937 on the 14th of
December, I was married to 37 years old, stout and handsome hero of
�Joymoti� in spite of the negative wish of my timid widow mother. My aunt
took all initiatives and within night she arranged the marriage ceremony
successfully.
Khirada Kumari had to take care of her in- law�s joint
family, consisting of her mother in law (Borma), husband, and brother-in-
law, and his motherless kids, other niece and nephews. She was quite happy
spreading love and care to the younger and honoring the elders. Being
mother of five children, she was also quite conscious about the interest
of her children and shouldered all the responsibilities of them for proper
education according to their own choice. As a result, her daughter became
well-known as an artist of notional fame in classical dance.
Srijuta Baruah was an expert in every household work
including preparation of tasty items in her kitchen and also acquired
appreciation for hospitability. The great personalities of �Sarvodoy
Committee like Joy Prakash Narayan, Sucheta Kripalini, Jijubhai Patel, U.N
Dherbarji Siddhique Ali, Moraroji Desai, Rajmohan Gandhi, Sobhna Ranade,
Sankar Rao, Nabakrishna Choudhury, Nirmala Bedi along with almost all the
most honorable persons from Assam, appreciated her untiring hospitality
when they visited her house that time.
She used to prepare different variety of meals
according to the varied choice of her guests. Her expert hands regularly
offered meal to her guest everyday, which were not less than twenty to
thirty. As Mrs. Baruah left no stone unturned in the hospitability of the
�Sarvodoy� activists from outside Assam. Sankar Rao Deva appreciated
Srijuta Baruah as "Laxmi" and called her Devi "Annapurna� the goddess
incarnation of "Anna" (meal). The Runiah delegates, the National and
Foreigners of M.R.A., the delegates from World Bank highly appreciated
Mrs. Baruah and in admiration of her hospitality called her a true example
of hospitality of Assamese Women.
Her handicrafts are beyond imagination. The collection
of needle works, woolen and crockery works are than sufficient in number
to install on exhibition. She knitted sweaters and stitched beautiful
dresses herself and presented those to her children and grand children. It
is worth mentioning that she prepared an attractive carpet for her
son-in-law Amjid Ali Khan, the international artist of �Sarod" to sit
while playing the instrument. In the present days also she engages herself
either in knitting or in stitching. Her handloom is dearer to her and she
is an expert in weaving also. Not only she offers �Phulam Gamosa� to
�Namghar� (prayer hall) as a devotee but in the past she also created
beautiful floral borders for �Mekhela Chador� (traditional dress of
Assamese Women) in her handloom when she got time in the midst of
household works. As a while she is worthy and fit to challenge the women
folk of other states in India that time. That is why she didn�t even
hesitate to drive her car to drop her children at school and bring them
home while they were studying in Calcutta.
Literary talent:
Srijuta Khirada Kumari Baruah was a studious learner
from very childhood. She could not appear in the final school leaving
Examination but due to her own determination and effort she has won the
knowledge of different languages. She even learnt Urdu in guidance of a
private tutor. Her visit to various places in the world as well as her
untiring thirst for learning new things provides her immense knowledge of
literature.
Mahatma�s �Satbani Sankalan� was her first
published book and she published it for her own. In 1969 she has
presented that book to �Gandhi Smarak Nidhi�. Analyzing Gandhi from
several points of view she expressed her feelings in �Arghya� saying
"A great man can protect religion. The voice of great man is
everlasting. The sight of great man is beyond time. By following their
work history the entire society the entire society exists for
thousands of years. The existence of soul in every human in this world
remains same.
The great man found no difference between his own
soul and the soul of any other person. So they are beyond any
difference. It was Gandhi only, who imparted great massage to maintain
peace and harmony in the entire world. This great massage will inspire
the human society for coming thousands of years," Thus, the writer
believed that from the core of her heart.
Her second book named �Smriti Mukhar Europe� was
published by Meera Chakraborty. It was written in 1967 just after her
visit to came to light in 1977. It is a final novel. Keen observation
of the subject matter is the significance of this book. At the very
outset of the book she narrates-"The ancient history, natural beauty
and cultural phenomenon of every country seems to be glorious". The
famous countries she visited were France, Belgium, Holland, West
Germany, Italy, Denmark, Sweden, Spain, Switzerland, England, all of
them had individual significance that always fascinated her. She had
described her experiences about the journey to different places in
several segments--------- a) Sira Seujia Mahanagari Paris (Evergreen
city Paris) b) Tulip Phular Dekh Holland (Holland, the country of
Tulip) c) Madhur Smritit Gondolor Dekh Venice (Sweet memory of Venice,
the land of Gondola) d) Scandinavian Dekh Sweeden (Sweeden,the land of
Scandynavian) e) Mohamola Copenhagen (Beautiful Copenhagen) f)
Pragatisil Dekh Germany (progressed land Germany) g) Mukharit
Mahanagari London (The cheerful city London ) h) Rodalir Dekh Spain
(Sunny land Spain) i) Silpir Dekh Belgium (Belgium, the land of
artist) j) Tusarabritya Switzerland (Snowy Switzerland) k) Jugamia
Mahanagari Rome (classic city Rome). l) The titles of every segment
expose her poetic sense. She had visited the countries not like a mere
tourist but she was like a keen historical observer. About the
evergreen city Paris she remarked � "In the daylight the busiest city
Paris becomes glamorous in the evening. No other place like Paris has
the capacity to attract person and it is sure that nobody could find
peace and tranquility of mind anywhere else in this world if he or she
is not satisfied with the charming beauty of Paris. There is enough
scope of entertainment for the rich to spend money. On the other hand
the poor can earn some money, entertaining the rich. Obviously, Paris
is the most expensive city but there is every source of satisfaction
and the people of Paris are confident that their city is one only the
�grand city� in this world".
In the topic �Rodalir Dekh Spain�, she explained how
the foreigners had appreciated the traditional Assamese dress- "They adore
me wearing the Oroni and my dress. They touched my clothes and said �mui
bian, mui bonit � that was very beautiful, very good, and in return I said
�gracious�, Thank you�. The wife of British Ambassador came forward,
introduced herself and appreciated my show white dress of Assam silk as
the best. It is only an information that how the foreigners love our
traditional dress".
In �Tusarabritta Switzerland� she could stand really on
the white snowy mountain peak of beautiful Switzerland!", standing on the
peak mind filled with unlimited joy. "There was snow and snow everywhere,
in front of me, behind me and besides me! The clouds were playing hide and
seek down the snowy hills! Myself, standing on the snowy peak and looking
at the crystal clear sky above me felt the existence of the mighty God
from the core of my heart. For his endless favors on me I conveyed my
heartiest regard to the holy feet of the omnipresent and omniscient God".
Though the description about her journey is no doubt heart touching, the
thought of spirituality is also visible there and for this reason all her
writings have acquired special value.
Spiritual minded Srijuta Khirada Kumari Baruah
published the book named �Devasthanam� in 1982 of her own. As an
outcome of research work, she gave an exposure of the main places of
Dravidian sculpture and art. The names of the holy places and the
stories related to their names are the main subject matter of the book
for the readers. In �Panchatirtham� she wrote- "To this hill two holy
birds used to come everyday at noon, at the same time and they are fed
there. That place is popular as �Pakshi Tirtham� in Sanskrit and in
Tamil; it is �Panch Tirtham�, which is related to the arrival of the
holy birds there.
Likewise, Srijuta Baruah gave a vivid description of
�Devi Meenakshi Mandir�, �Rupali Tirtham�, �Rameswaram�, �Devi
Kanyakumari�, �Sri Sri Padmanabham�, Sri �Venkataswara�,Nataranjan�,
�Sri Brihadeswar�, and �Sri Swamayabharam�, specially her wonderful
description and use of ornamentation to it, are really appreciable. In
�Sri Sri Venkataswava� the appearance of �Narayana� is described as-
"Whose lips are like red ripe fruit, teeth are like pearls, pointed
nose, ears with hanging earnings of jams and jewels eyes resembles the
pastels of lotus, bow shaped eye brows. The �tilak� of chandana on the
forehead, curly hair and the head is decorated with colorful peacock
feather, whose smiling face has been a magical power which cannot be
even compared to millions of �Kandarpa� (handsome)". In some other pages
she wrote-"Who is Sri Venkataswara? What is his identity? The living
beings attain purity and salvation at his glance! What is his
originality and where does he come from?-
"Ai janai Treta Yugar Sri ramChandra,
Ai janai Dwapar Yugar Sri Krishna,
Ai janai Kali Yugar Sri Venkataswava".
(He is the Sri Ram Chandra of Tretaynga)
He is the Sri Krishna of Dwapar yuga
He is the Sri Venkataswava of kaliyuga)
In 1984 she published the most exciting stories of
her religious tour and named it is "Debadham".
"Tomak Seba Karim Kene Kori,
Amar sakti nai.
Dosh Kshyama Kora dukhari charane
Padatale dia Thai".
(What energy we have to serve you, forgive our mistakes
and give a place on your holy feet.) By means of her beautiful
descriptions in the book �Devadham� lead the readers to another world.
In 1988 her book �Mandira Duare Duare� was
published by Mrinal kanti Bhattacharya. This book is a compilation of
�Debadham�, and Debasthanam, Dwarakadham and Dhamakshetra Kurukshetra.
�Nepal Bharam� (Journey to Nepal) is also a fine
story book about her journey to Nepal and this book is published by
Students� Emporium of Dibrughar in 1988. The Second edition of
�Smritimukhar Europe� is also ready for publication. Three books on
different types of cooking items needle works and textile designs, are
not published.
Number of magazines and Newspapers bear her
writings on several of subject matters. Out of those article named
�Bharatiya Sangitat Narir Abadan� ( The contribution of women to
Indian music) in the Souvenir of All Assam Lekhika Samaroh Samiti�s 12th
annual conference at Barpeta was of very high standard. In 1988,
�Rastramatar Monobai� in the magazine �Biawanagari�, �Porbandarar Para
Agakhan Prasadolic� in �Salankrita�, the first souvenir of Sibsagar
Lekhika Samitee in 1988, �Amaar Minoti�, in the Souvenir of Sri Sri
�Kowamaar Satra� on the occasion of the century celebration year in
1987, �Swamik Suwori�, an emotional article in the sweet memory of
Late Parasuram Baruah alias Phunu Baruah in the book �Abiinoy Sesh Hol�,
published by Assam Sahity Sabha and the life history of Kamalaya
Kakoti in the 1st edition of �Lekhikar Jiboni� published by
All Assam Lekhika Samaroh Samitee. All these articles are of great
value. It is worth mentioning that in 1979, on the occasion of
International children year, The �Jonali Sora� had succeeded in their
effort to bring forth a hand written Magazines called �Puberun� and
Srijuta Baruah�s translated story was also included in that magazine.
While studying in high school her first composition
of poem �Karmabir Bordoloi�, has beautified their handwritten
magazine. Her literary talent was always appreciated by her teachers.
The sweet rhythm in her poem is always visible as thus-
�ati dil
Garha andhakar
Antarat mor
Antahin hahakar
Un ati dile
Mangalar anandar
Pohorar diyok Sandhan.
Sesh Kori Sowar
Sokolo Sowar
Sokolo Power
Aji moi rikta
Tothapito
Dukh nai mor
Aji moi mukta.(Ashmoloi)
(In the above poem she expressed her sorrowful
condition of mind saying �her mind is full of darkness and endless
agony covers her life. But in the midst of sorrow and agony she is
quite sure that her eagerness to achieve the celestial pleasure will
be fulfilled one day, she is not unhappy rather she feels free today�)
In her poem �Swamir Biyogat� she expressed all love
and faith on him-
"Swami hina moi
bandhu hina moi
Jibonor ghat pratighat
Kshyato biksyata moi
Santi hina moi
Klanti hina moi
Jibonor salar pathat
Gati hina moi
Gyan hina moi
Bidya hina moi
Jibonor pratilo Khojat
Akasaria moi
Karmahina moi
Bhagya hina moi
Jibonot herualo
Samratar bhar
Dina hina moi
Bhakti hina moi
Jibonot Salar pathat
Prabhu! Tumi hoba mor
Saktir adhr!!"
(Swamir Biyogat)
(I have lost my husband
My friend I lost
In this world of trouble
I am hurt
I am peace less
Restless I am
I am in the labyrinth,
Lost the path of life
I lack knowledge
Illiterate I am
In every step, alone
Nothing to act
Ill �faceted
Lost all balance
Of my life
Poor I am lost faith
�O� thy almighty!
Only you, be the source of energy
In the path of my life!!)
(Swamir Biyogat)
(In memory of her husband)
Many of her articles are published in the Assamese
daily �Dainik Assam�. These are �Dephuni aru Kasobor� (Dhephui and the
turlles) �Bideshat Bhramonor dui ata Abhigyata� (Experience of journey
Abroad) �Bideshat �Senduror Akarshan� (In foreign land the attraction
of Sendur) �Mogoniar Kahani� story of beggar) �Pakhitirtham� (Bird
Pilgrimage) �Devi Kauyakumari� (goddess Kanyakumari) �Tirthabhumi
Rameswaram� (holy place Rameswaram)
Social contribution:
The residence of Khirada Kumari Baruah was the
gathering place of different personalities. As her husband was
associated with many cultural organizations and her brother-in-law was
related to active politics, a great number of national political
leaders, musician, dancers, writers as well as artists used to visit
her house and provide every chance to meet them. The close association
and interaction with those renowned personalities enabled her to
become broadminded and feel the vastness of this world. Those great
personalities were- Pandit Jawaharlal Neheru, Sarbapalli Radhakrishnan,
Indira Gandhi, Acharya Binoa Bhabe, Rukmini Devi, Sankar Menon and
from Assam Jyotiprasad, Bishnu Rabha along with many others artists,
literary persons and politicians. Those greatmen inspired her to live
in this world for the betterments of others.
Khirada Kumari, always aware of this society takes
active role in every social activity. She is a life member of �Maitri
Ashram�, advisor to �Pradeshik Mahila Samitee�, Vice president of
Sibsagar District Mahila Samitee�, Adviser of All Assam Lekhika
Samaroh Samitee�, Sibsagar Branch, President of �Jonali Sora�,
excutive member of Sibsagar Girl�s college Managing Committee, Member
of Assam Sahity Parisalana Samitee� and last but not the least she was
a life member of �Assam Sahitya Sabha�, and "All Assam Lekhika Samaroh
Samitee". Today, in her ripe old age also she engages herself in
various social activities.
She is always with the common people at the time of
their sorrow and smile. It may be floods have or epidemic. She
stretches her helping hands towards the needy person at the time of
distress with essential commodities like medicine, meal, clothes and
so on. She never cares for rain and storm and darkness of night,
always ready to serve the neighbors and the downtrodden at the time of
any trouble, which act may be compared to the act of the legendary
lady Florence Nightingale.
�Moral Raiment center�, under the guidance of
Rajmohon Gandhi conducted a medical conference, which was really
appreciable. In that conference while introducing khirada Kumari
Baruah delivered her speech in English in that conference, which was
really appreciable. In that conference while introducing Khirada
Kumari Baruah, Mr. Niketuiralo, added that Khirada�s house might
relate to an international guest house. Really this remark bears
significance. The important penalties of national and international
level, from hills and plains connected to the activity of culture,
literature and politics assembled in her residence many a times. Her
first daughter �Bijoylaxmi� is married to the Basu family of West
Bengal. Her second daughter is married to the Sarod maestro of
International fame, Amzad Ali Khan. Her good name is Subhalaxmi the
great classical dancer of India. These marriages no doubt have
strengthened the national integration.
It was 1988, in the biennial conference of comic
drama of Lombodar Bora one act play competition held at Brahmajan of
sonitpur District, Khirada Kumari vividly said in her inaugural
speech, that how late Lombodar Bora, who was born in an interior
village, contributed a lot to his mother tongue. In that programmed
she was felicitated with great honor.
For social enlistment Khirada Kumari donates open
heartedly without any discrimination regarding caste, creed and
religion. In 1989 she had contributed a large sum of money in the
sweet memory of her contributed a large sum of money in the sweet
memory of her late husband to �Sibsagar Natya Samaj�.
"Sundadar Aradhana Jinor Khel"- It is worth
applicable to the life of Srijuta Khirada Kumari Baruah. �Devotion to
beauty is life�. Really she is a devotee of beauty. She loves flowers.
In the book �Abhinoy Sesh Hol� she wrote- "He loves to rare the
kitchen garden as well as the fruit garden. Likewise I have special
interest in the kitchen garden and her flower and her flower garden�.
Her flower garden is full of life and looks gorgeous always.
In the year 1985, Assam Sahity Sabha had published
the book "Abhinoy Sesh Hol�. In the article �Swamik Suwari�, in that
book she expressed- "In the long forty five years of our married life
he did not utter any harsh word against me. We loved each other and
above that we respect each other. His true love, respect and honor for
me till the last day of his will be my great inspiration to live the
life of a widow.
She is very punctual in her day today activates and
prepares plan for her day�s work beforehand. She never takes rest in
the day hours and in the night only she rests herself after the
completion of her work. This dynamic lady, the owner of tremendous
energy is a matter of mystery for the young girls and young women of
today.
It is her regular activity to sing the hymns of
Geeta and Bhagawat so perfectly and melodiously in her private prayer
room. On the other hand she is busy in prayer and different meetings
regarding religious matters in the public �Namghar� (prayer hall) of
locality as if she is traveling like an angel in the world of
religion.
Smti Khirada Kumari Baruh is beautiful, decent and
always in her traditional dress. May her evergreen mind always remain
fresh?
|