BISHNUPRIYA DEVI(1839/40-1892)
Behind every successful man, as the saying goes, there
is a woman. Bishnupriya Devi was such a woman who co-operated, helped and
inspired in every step of the life of Raibahadur Gunabhiram Baruah.
Regarding the exact date of birth of Bishnupriya no correct data has been
found till this date. But from the information found from the article
�Morkatha� written by her son Jnanadabhiram Baruah, she died in 1892 at
the age of 52/53 years. Therefore it can roughly be calculated that her
date of birth may fall between 1839 and 1840. The name of her father was
Lambodar Kakoty.
Earlier Gunabhiram Baruah married Brajasundari, the
sister-in-law of Anandaram Baruah the famous literary figure of Assam.
Gunabhiram�s marriage with Brajasundari was solemnized on 2nd
December 1857.But Brajasundarileft for heavenly abode on July 1867 living
behind no offspring. Therefore, Gunabhiram settled his second marriage in
1870 with Bishnupriya. This marriage was a great shock to the people of
Assam because Bishnupriya was the widow of Parashuram Baruah, a childhood
friend of Anandaram Dhekial Phukan. It was Iswarchandra Vidyasagar who
initiated for the first time a marriage with a widow. Gunabhiram
contemplated the change that Vidyasagar was about to bring forth and in
the January, 1857, issue of Arunodoi, Gunabhiram wrote �Oh! The God of the
Universe! When shall we be happy by such blessed work? Oh God be pleased.�
Probably the God gave year to his prayer and in his own life he was able
to accomplish this blessed work by marrying Bishnupriya. His marriage was
the first registered marriage in Assam and through this Gunabhiram had
declared his fight against the conservative society of the time.
Gunabhiram and Bishnupriya had four children and they were Swarnalata,
karunabhiram, Kamalabhiram and Jnanadabhiram. All of them were very
brilliant and intelligent from their childhood. But unfortunately
Karunabhiram and Kamalabhiram died young. The workplace of Gunabhiram was
nagaon and at that time there was no educational institution there. So
Bishnupriya had to toil hard for proper education of her children.
Jnanadabhiram Baruah in one of his articles �Mor katha� describes that due
to the non-availability of schools at Nagaon Swarnalata had to receive her
primary education in her home under a �Pandit� and later on she was
admitted in the Bethune School in the year 1800. It was not a trivial
matter for a family to send a child of nine years to a distant place like
Calcutta. In spite of the poor and troublesome journey from Assam to
Calcutta, Bishnupriya used to visit her ward frequently to know about her
education. In a period when woman education was yet to receive proper
importance Bishnupriya earned education both in Assamese and Bengali
language and was able to contribute much in the development of Assamese
literature. She wrote a book on social morality. Accordingly to the
records of Jnanadabhiram Baruah his mother knew a little English also.
After his retirement, Gunabhiram Baruah settled
permanently at Calcutta with his family. The family had a very good
relationship with Lakshminath Bezbaroa. Bezbaroa wrote in his
autobiography that he met this family in a rented house in Maniktola
Street. Lakshminath Bezbaroa in his autobiography remembers this educated
lady with affection and honour. Bishnupriya left for her heavenly abode on
Saturday, 26th March 1892. In spite of the efforts of the
famous doctors of Calcutta she breathed her last in her rented house. In
that house of Bishnupriya, latter on the Bangavasi College was
established.
Bishnupriya Devi was the source of inspiration for her
son Jnanadabhiram. He, in his writing has categorically mentioned that his
mother Bishnupriya Devi was very liberal and bright minded woman and
possessed a amazingly loving personality. She never compromised with the
conservative and rigid regulations of the society and protested strongly
whenever necessity demands. She was very religious also. The building
where �Padasila� was kept was donated by her as informed by late Thuleswar
Mahanta. Of course this has a reference in �Morkatha� where Jnanadabhiram
says that it was donated by him in the sacred memory of his deceased
mother.
Bishnupriya could make a balance between her religious
and family life. In fact the characteristics of an ideal mother, an ideal
woman, and an ideal wife have been synthesized in a very balance manner
within the personality of this lady. Her life and activities itself is a
role model to remind every woman the duties to be performed towards the
family, society and to the nation. Bishnupriya will remain alive as an
exemplary legend in the mind of the Assamese people for ever.